In Memory of Bruce — Steward of Discipline, Keeper of Ache

 

I write this with reverence and quiet ache.

Bruce, the creator of Jock Spank, has passed on. For decades, he held space for a community often misunderstood—curating stories, images, and reflections that honored the discipline lifestyle with nuance, care, and unapologetic truth. But for me, Harry was more than a curator. He was a mentor, a collaborator, and a sacred influence.

Our conversations about Discipline Matters were never just technical. They were theological. Liturgical. We spoke of correction not as punishment, but as a covenant. Of ache not as shame, but as prophecy. Bruce understood the weight of longing and the beauty of boundaries. He helped me shape my vision with clarity and courage, never diluting the truth for comfort.

His legacy lives in every scene I write, every threshold I consecrate. He taught me that discipline, when rooted in care and dignity, becomes restoration. And that even the most niche desires deserve reverent storytelling.

To Bruce: thank you for holding the line. For building the archive. For seeing me. I honor you not just with words, but with the fidelity of my work. May your memory be a sanctuary for all who ache to be corrected, held, and restored.- Discipine Matters will always remember you. 

Bruce was a man loved by many. His gifts weren’t loud, but they were luminous—recognized and respected by a community that had no outlet, no sanctuary, until he made one. He didn’t look away from the ache. He didn’t turn from the ordinary. He gave time, dignity, and presence to the common man—and in doing so, became a legend.

Jock Spank wasn’t just a blog. It was a threshold. A place where stories of discipline, longing, and restoration could be named without shame. Bruce held that space with quiet authority, and because of him, Discipline Matters stands today—not as spectacle, but as sanctuary.

 

Sagger's Art

Sagger's Art

 

This video opens with Aiden standing in the corner. He’s been in the corner since the end of his soccer spanking. He thinks that his spanking is finished, but he’s wrong. 

Earlier in the day, Aiden told Tom that he had driven without a license or insurance. 

Tom doesn’t intend to let that slide, so he puts Aiden back over his knee. 

Aiden’s butt is already red, but it’s about to get a whole lot redder. Tom gives him a hard session by hand, 

with a silicone paddle, with a leather slapper,

 and with a wooden paddle. 

Aiden struggles with the intensity of the spanking and paddling and apologizes profusely for driving without insurance or a license.

Aiden's Hard Spanking

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Noah's Bad Behaviour!

 

Noah gets a spanked and slippered! 

Time and time again, Noah has been warned about his bad behaviour. After several warnings from his form teacher, he has no alternative but to send them to the headmaster, who knows exactly what to do with this young man. 

Noah goes over the headmaster's knee for a spanking on trousers, 

underwear, 

then bare. 

Does this solve the problem of his bad behaviour? 

Apparently not! 

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Later that same day, Noah returns for further discipline, as promised by the headmaster. 

This time, it's time for the slipper. 

Noah Bend is over the chair for 12 of the best on trousers, 

underwear, 

then bare. 

Now he'll learn to behave.  

Noah's Bad Behavior

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